That One Wave



Hello everyone! How are you all?

 "How many friends do you have?" The question everyone asks me when I wave 2-3 people in a row. Yes, I know many people and I wave to them because I don't know what are they going through or are they really happy and if they are happy to become part of their happiness. I just want them to know that m there for them but sometimes I feel like m really interfering or becoming annoying and friendly so I distance myself. In Indian culture, we are taught to respect our elders, and we wish them before sleeping and after they're awake. Why shouldn't we start wishing our friends, colleagues, and people we know anyone. According to me, the most beautiful thing in the world is wishing someone to compliment someone. You might have noticed you might have not when I see someone I always smile and wave to them and if I am close to them I also shake hands and ask them how they are. Even if I see someone I don't talk to anymore,I also wish them too. We never know what someone thinks about us Maybe they think we are friendly even if we are not. Wishing someone with all your heart can make their day. SPREAD POSITIVE VIBES. We should never fake anything expressions most importantly. We never know if we are going to see someone again or not. I read this somewhere "I saw a little girl outside Starbucks crying, I went to ask if she's okay I asked which drink she wants and she said vanilla latte, then I asked her why was she crying she sobbed and said I got into a fight with my father in the morning when he was driving me to school and he said I love you when I was leaving but... I replied I hate you and slammed the door and ran inside the school that was the last thing I got to say he got into an accident and can't make it I can never tell him how much I love him". Most of my friendships get revived because I put in a lot of effort ( without compromising my self-respect). We are not knotted in relations and relations are not a burden. 

I love you all 

Having a soft heart in this cruel world is courage, not weakness 





Hello, I am Falguni Sharma, a 16 year old girl trying hard to live her best life, and collecting all the memories.

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