ATTACHMENT ATTACHMENT ATTACHMENT

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Falguniiiiii againnnn

How are youu all

Q What really attachment is, why it is, with whom it is, and why it is not good

• What is attachment? what does it mean? 

First of all, learn the difference between "Connection" and "Attachment' Connection gives you power strength, etc, but attachment sucks the life out of you for example "You got into a fight with your best friend (if one of you guys had a good connection like not the attachment) that person will not take that thing that seriously because they know how to talk and make everything normal (but the one who is attached) will start assuming things like all the bad things about their friend  which are not really bad and they will think about it day and night basically they will overthink that situation and being honest The second person the one who is attached was me at one point of time so yeah being attached to someone can also make you toxic because u can't hear anything against them they are like God to you 

• Why it is or what makes someone attached to the other and why it is not good?

At this age like after 13 or 12, some of us feel good being alone because people on this earth are ugh eww XD. So when we find someone who matches our vibe we make them friend and they are our only friend so we start considering them as our best friend but they think about you as a normal friend or classmate/batchmate (they don't think about you lmao) only so when they don't hang out with you or don't text you or they don't give you attention u feel like waste *-*. And feeling that way is really not good for your grades xD. (in short, it's better to be aloneeeeee *-*). In short, being attached to anything or anyone is being dependent on them.

And You can not be only attached to humans but also things like good grades, reputation, something you made lemme tell you something 

There's this thing Tibetan Buddhist tradition involves the creation and destruction of the mandala. They create it with the help of sand and once it's done they destruct it,it serves as a reminder of the impermanence of life. Not everything is permanent in life at some point of time everything needs to leave there is this line "The tighter you hold the more they wanna slip away" And now I get it where everything went wrong that's the same thing with everyone :)

•   My views + My experience 

Second of all, I can never stop being attached to anything like I can be literally soo attached and loyal and everything to everyone If I want to (at this moment m like eww people).

Me and my best friend had some fights and she was the one (no offense if you are reading just my views xD) who was not that much affected by that and she was like okay u wanna fight let's fight because she knew that if we will fight my attachment towards her will be broken and I will not be that dependent on her. When we fought I started making her good to her bad like everything she did for me I started converting it bad and I started bitching about her (really sorry *-* Y). And when we talked face to face. I was the one who apologized and realized that it was me and I was the one making up things in my head.  T-T 

Once in 5th standard, there was an inter-house dance competition I was the one who was given the duty of selecting the students basically the house teachers made me captain and I was the one who selected the song and choreographed it, and all of a sudden a girl who dances well ( i suck at dancing xD ) was replaced from my position I still remember I left the room crying T-T

Once in 6th I was given this class monitor duty batch and all and after one week my classmates were like we are going to get your batch away and that day arrive after lunch break in french period my class teacher was like who votes for falguni continue being monitor and there were zero hands 0 *-* then she said falguni gimme your batch and I was having half day that day so the peon came and informed me that my father is waiting for me at the reception  I left the class not crying this time but in attitude+watery eyes, like I don't give a shit about anything ( basically crying but not showing) there are so mannyyy so mannyyyy incidents like this *-* 

• Someee Thoughts

No one ever broke your heart. They only broke your expectations. And by doing that they brought you closer to your heart  -Kyle Cease

Ok byeeee guysssss 

I will meet you next time 

Bubyeeeee