Love Yourself, Put yourself first

Hello Reader,

As a teenager i know it's not easy being in teen-age. We meet lots of people lose lots of friends and humans who were in our happy memories, we make lots of mistakes from which we may learn or from which we may cry. Our parents wants us to score good grades and our friends want us to do shit we don’t want to and society wants us to act mature when we’re just trying to figure out what is life! They tell us to express ourselves but the minute we do they tell you to shut-up. 

In these six-years of your life you don’t have friends or someone you can talk to or express your feelings. You have tons of shit to do but you can’t because you spend days and hours thinking about why that thing happened or where you went wrong. 

So here I want you all guys to be happy with what you have. If you don't have friends it's okay you have your family, your cousins and siblings you can talk to them. And sometimes it's easier to slip into your own dark abyss and forget the world exists, but remember sometimes. It's not okay to hide what you are feeling.

I want all of you guys, even if you are a teen or an adult, to be happy. And if you think there is nothing to be happy for. No, dear you are breathing you are still alive do whatever you want Because this life should be big not long, as long as you are alive you are not dead. 

Set your aim, goal and start your journey towards it. Just don’t look back and don’t stop. When a journey is started it’s meant to be finished. The day when you will see your goal from a distance you will love yourself for not giving up and then just a few steps away your dreams will come true. And your journey to your goal is not difficult. Go forward while enjoying your life. No matter what you are going through there's light at the end of every tunnel. Be yourself don't fake anything even if it’s emotions or friendship. Don’t let that one mistake or one sad memory let you down. Forget everything about the world, what they will think or what if they don’t like you. You are not breathing to make everyone happy you are living to accomplish your goals not others. You are a ray to your path, you cannot be a ray to someone else's. 

Don’t let social media make you feel like you need to accomplish all your goals in a short time. Slow and steady wins the race, consistent efforts everyday add up and create results. Lack of patience creates pressure + stress. No one cares for your success , so you have to care. You have to force yourself to turn your phone off & revise & workout. It's your life, your goals, your dreams, it will be your success but nothing starts without efforts so start working upon yourself your dreams instead of crying that you are not capable of anything or you don't have friends etc. 

Just don't waste your time on this nonsense stupidity.

People who care about you will be there for you whenever you need help. Stop chasing after people and being the only one trying to fix everything. It's mentally and physically exhausting. You have to find peace with whoever comes and goes from your life. You’ll lose yourself trying to save someone else. Break-ups are ok. Moving on is ok. Saying on is ok. Being alone is okay. What is not okay is staying somewhere you are not happy, valued or unappreciated that's not ok! You deserve more than pointless forced convos. You deserve more than no replies and canceled plans. You deserve more than only convenience from them. You deserve the best, don't settle for average or good enough. Being alone is powerful; its addiction use that power to focus on your goals. Use that power to concentrate your mind. Your only goal in life right now should be, Genuinely and consistently happy regardless of what that looks like to others. Your next chapter is going to cause some people to wish they had treated you better. Once Michael Jordan said Practice like you have never won and play like you’ve never lost. Be strong but not rude, be kind but not weak, be humble but not timid, be proud but not arrogant. No need to be perfect for impressing others, let them be impressed by your imperfections. Read books, go to museums, watch documentaries educate yourself. You don't need to go to ivy league school to be cultured. You don't need money to understand how the world works. You just need to put yourself first and grab all the opportunities that come your way. STUDY HARD,STAY MOTIVATED,WORKOUT,FOCUS ON YOUR GOALS AND ACHIEVE THEM.